One of the questions I receive most often at my job as a educator at historic sites is “wouldn’t you love to live back then?” For reference, that encompasses a period of time roughly 1820-1920 and the answer is a resounding no. I am all about indoor plumbing, air conditioners, and not being considered property. This book Unmentionable: The Victorian Lady’s Guide to Sex, Marriage, and Manners by Therese Oneill lays out all the ways life was downright terrible for women life was during that […]
“It’s so much easier to accept your feminine role in this world if you don’t struggle.”
Unmentionable: The Victorian Lady's Guide to Sex, Marriage, and Manners by Therese Oneill

