Like eleven million other Americans (literally!), I bought Gary Chapman’s 5 Love Languages at some point in my relationship. The gist of the book is that there are five “love languages” and everyone prefers one of them: time, touch, gifts, service, and words of affirmation. I remember liking it when I read it several years ago, but I was engaged at the time and it didn’t really stick. I remembered what it said about me (quality time!), but unfortunately not enough about what it said about […]
Learning the Language of Love
Words of Affirmation Quality Time Receiving Gifts Acts of Service Physical Touch There you go, the entire book in a nutshell. You’re welcome. But I should probably go into more detail. One day at my gym, a spontaneous conversation erupted about love languages. As each person chimed in to say which “love language” they were, it made me wonder what I was missing. What are these mysterious love languages? Why don’t I know my love languages? I also couldn’t resist the allure of labeling my […]

